Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck.

Yeah I am back to wrote something again here after a long break and at this moment i would like to talk about life about what we do everyday.Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be, your neighbor, your coworker, a long lost friend, or a complete stranger. When you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved,straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.

Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen.

Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.

You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

Most importantly if you Love someone tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.

Learn a lesson in life each day that you live. That’s the story of Life.

How far does your love go, you know?

Cheating seems to happen in romance relationships at the worst times when we least expect it. We often sit there in shock after we found out that a romance partner cheated on us. It often makes us feels it is our fault. We need to remember that it isn't our fault when a romance partner cheats on us with someone else. Someone who cheats would do it regardless of what may have been said or done by you in the past. Once cheating happens there is no trust left in the romance relationship.

Healing from cheating

The most difficult part of cheating is to begin healing. It is hard to look at your romance partner that cheated on you. We often blame ourselves for the actions of a partner. Sometimes we feel that we failed in the romance relationship somehow. Cheating really has nothing else to do with us. A partner who cheats has a problem within himself or herself that they need to put a stop to somehow. Cheating is a form of deception because the partner did try to hide it from us. People who cheat usually deny it unless they are caught and they know that we know what he or she did.

Can you forgive him or her?

When someone is able to forgive someone it is something that takes allot from someone to be able to do. You don't have to forget about how your partner cheated on you. We need to be able not hold onto things anymore. You can't stay upset with someone forever because it isn't healthy. Everyone does make mistakes from time to time in this wonderful world, but the important thing to remember is if someone learns from mistakes. You need to ask yourself if you can ever forgive your partner that cheated on you.

Should you forgive him or her?

Only if your partner has started to be honest with you and is not telling lies anymore. If your partner is truly sorry about that he or she cheated on you then you should forgive them over time. It takes time to be able to forgive an individual for actions such as cheating. Not everyone who cheats is a bad person. Your partner who cheated on you can't just expect you to just forget about it overnight or even over a year. It takes months and even a year or so to get over something like that since cheating is a form of deception.

How can you get the images out of your mind?

Images of your partner in bed with someone else is something difficult to get over. A few things that can help you get the images of out your head is to remember that person who cheated with your partner isn't one to brag about. She or he isn't some perfect person. If you two decide to work on your relationship despite cheating in the past then remember the other man or woman wasn't that great. Try to remember the times that you and your partner did things together. Try to forget about the other person that use to be with your partner.

Will he or she not cheat on you anymore?

People who cheat often have low self esteem and therefore don't think very highly about themselves. If your partner is truly sorry for what he or she did then they will never cheat on you. People who aren't really sorry for what they did then they will often do it again and try to get away with it. People who want to keep on cheating they just try to hide it better and hope to not get caught again. Some people lie to their partner and keep cheating. You need to decide if your partner is one that would be able to bring him or herself to be able to cheat on you. Only you know how sorry he or she may be for cheating on you in the past. Do what you think is the best for you to do in regards to the romance relationship.

I appreciate your coming but don’t make fun of me! Your birthday is coming!

Last night I went out with some of my favorite friends to celebrate my birthday. Actually it’s a surprise dinner but I know it already..hahaha..Why sudden nice to me? I can smell the trick...Owh, by the way We went to dinner at Seribu Bintang Restaurant and had a great meal, also nice birthday cake.

We had fun talking, nasty words is a must? Really? and laughing together. I got some great birthday gifts and had so much fun. I am so thankful for all of these sweet crazy friends and their friendships. They are all so special to me!

I am so grateful for all of my friends! They are the best. Some of them skip the gym? to Trio the night before my birthday to celebrate..and get flue..get well soon ok..Thanks so much btw..:

o    A good friend, as we know, is almost a brother. He’ll understand everything and he’ll share your grief and your joy. Thank you, my friend for being with me on my birthday.
o    My dearest friend, I was really happy to have a kindred spirit on my birthday dinner. Thank you!
o    Friends hold a prominent place in our lives therefore your presence on my birthday party is so valuable. Thank you for dinning with me!
o    Thank you for being so happy for me on my birthday!
o    Thank you for always being with me, even on my birthday!
o    I appreciate your coming but don’t make fun of me! Your birthday is coming!
o    I really do not understand why people are happy on their birthdays – they are getting older! Anyway, thanks for coming!
o    It was really a great pleasure to see you on my birthday party. I’ll be expecting you next year as well.
o    A wise man said that eyes of friendship cannot be wrong, that’s why I was so happy to see you on my birthday dinner..
o    Thank you for making me feel like a king on my birthday! Frankly speaking, the feeling is wonderful!

o    Thank you for not enjoying my birthday very much! It’s not funny at all.
o    Having my friends around me on my birthday – what can be greater than that? Thanks!
o    A wise man once said that no matter how happy we are, we always want to share our happiness with our friends. Thank you for sharing my happiness on my birthday!
o    No matter how old we get, we’ll always need the support of our friends. Thank you once again, my friends, for being with me on my birthday!
o    They say that when your friends are happy, you are happy too. Thank you for being happy on my birthday, dear friends!
o    How can a man be sad on his birthday if he is surrounded by such amazing friends! Thank you!
o    Thank you, dear friends for making me feel like I am the centre of the world on my birthday!
o    Thank you, friends, for your wonderful birthday wishes, for your irreplaceable gifts and for your unforgettable smiles!
o    Our best friends are the most welcome...

Happy 29th Birthday to Me!

This has been a year of growth and change. I just turned 29 and even though I feel I’ve gained much life wisdom in the last 12 months, I actually don’t feel a day over.

Well another birthday has come, and I am happy today. Getting older does not bother me, partially because I still feel in my 20s, maybe once I feel old, getting old will suck. I mean I do have less hair, don’t jump as high, my shoulder has no whip in it hardly, my ankles hurt after walking too long…wait a minute, maybe I do feel old!! :) Nah….

Turning 29 is kind of funny. It's that age that people older than 29 pretend to be turning when they don't want to embrace their actual age. It's so common, I kind of feel like I'm lying when I say "I'm turning 29 today." It's like: people who say they're turning 29 just aren't telling the truth. Because most of them aren't!! Anyway, I'm looking forward to turning 30 next year, because 29 is just awkward. It has this built in ageist angst to it that I just don't like. And I think I've always been spiritually in my 30s, anyway. Even when I was a kid, and especially when I was in  school. Not that I was all that mature or anything, it's just more how I've always seen the world. Or so I presume.... (Having never been in my 30s, myself.)

What's my birthday wish? Nothing extravagant. I just wish and pray for a long, healthy life, good career and job and the same for my loves ones, too. This is my first birthday that I wasn't in good feeling. But, I'm doing better and will be completely okay soon, hopefully. I've already go gym and so losing weight is next to my list. I really need to lose the weight I gained in the past years because of my lifestyle and PCOS. I know it won't be as easy as me love food , rice especially but I hope I can accomplish it in the next months.

Wish me luck! Al vida...

Bahtera hati yang sepi....

Dalam kehidupan ini andainya kita bisa mengetahui apa yang akan belaku makanya pasti dunia ini beralun dengan keindahan yang wajar.Namun kita semua hidup berbayangkan takdir yang telah ditentukan oleh ilahi,sesuatu kenangan pahit tak akan terhakis dari mengembari kehidupan kita dimasa akan datang.Akan tetapi apakah kita akan mudah mengacuhkan persoalan kehidupan kita?

Memang tak mudah untuk kita lupai.Dasar kita memang manusia lemah bertahtakan lagenda kekuatan umat namun hakikinya kita tidak sekuat itu.Sesekali aku terfikir apakah ini satu kehampaan yang timbul dari lubuk hati yang paling dasar?wah jika benar nyatanya ini suatu sesalan yang tak mungkin hilang dari hayatku.